Author: Justified by Faith

Why are you still single? Because you’re not good enough

TheoThoughts

pointing-an-accusing-fingerI bet if you took a poll and asked Christians why there are so many singles in the church who want to get married, you might be horrified at telling them it is because they are not good enough. And yet, I am rapidly coming to the conclusion that tends to be the overarching description regarding singleness in the church.  No, we don’t say that so directly but in other ways. We’ve created endless lists on the attributes that keep people from marriage. A recent example is this post on Reformation21. Rick Phillips cites these reasons;

1. Immaturity and Sin among Men: Phillips contends that men in their 20s and 30s lack the maturity to even want, let alone be properly prepared for marriage and therefore aren’t prioritizing it. Applicable here are men who do not have the gift of singleness but for whatever reason, do not feel the…

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Religious Exclusivity Is Inescapable

P. Andrew Sandlin

We live in a time that champions tolerance above virtually every other virtue, but there have been few times in recent memory marked by more fiery divisiveness. How do we explain this seeming contradiction?

Today’s tolerance isn’t genuine tolerance, but is much closer to what the apostle Paul in Romans 1 calls the approval of evil.  Secularists and pagan postmoderns aren’t tolerant of differing viewpoints and practices. But they are selectively tolerant of depravity, and highly intolerant of anybody intolerant of that depravity. This selective tolerance, this intolerance for godliness, marks the culture with which we daily interact, so it would benefit us to investigate it. This intolerance springs from religious exclusivity.

Primitive persecution  

A good place to start is with the earliest Christians. They weren’t especially tolerated by the Roman authorities or by their fellow citizens. They were persecuted and martyred. They weren’t oppressed because they believed…

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Let’s Put Away the Childish Nonsense We Have Been Taught About Who is a Christian!

A Cry For Justice

One of the biggest and most widespread false teachings and beliefs in the church is the idea that if someone says with their mouth they believe in Jesus, they are a Christian, they are saved, and no one must EVER question that!  How did we ever get to this point of buying into such nonsense?  All that mere words qualify a person to be is a demon:

You believe that God is one; you do well. Even the demons believe–and shudder! James 2:19

This is the reason why the wicked, including abusers, are able to carry on their masquerade in our churches. And it is the reason why so many abuse victims are put through so much doubt, fog, misery, and grief. “But he is a Christian, isn’t he?” No. Somehow like the black plague this lie has been spread by the false teachings of rats for a long, long time…

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Thursday Thought — A True Christian

A Cry For Justice

What makes real Christianity different [from every other religion]  is the transformation that has taken place in the life of the one who has personally come to Christ.

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Salvation in Christ changes our eternal destiny, but it also changes much more. True salvation changes the very essence of our personhood.  Understanding what a true Christian is will revolutionize how we deal with abusers.  A true Christian is:

  • Once an enemy of God, one who is now His child who loves Him (I John 4:19; Galatians 4:4ff)
  •  A new creature, a new man, a son of God (II Corinthians 5:17; Ephesians 2:1ff)
  • One who has God’s law written on his heart (Hebrews 8:10-11)
  • One who has been taught by the Spirit of Christ (Ephesians 4:20ff)

In an abuser — with his utter self-centeredness and justification of his wrong actions, his lack of love for others and mindset…

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Why Kind, Gentle, Nice Christians, Aren’t

A Cry For Justice

1 Corinthians 5:1   It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father’s wife.  2 And you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn? Let him who has done this be removed from among you.

One of the greatest sources of enablement the abuser enjoys in our churches comes from what on the surface looks like the kindest, gentlest, most merciful, loving Christian in the church.  In the name of “mercy and love and grace” this kind of individual reminds us frequently that

  • All sinners are the same.
  • All of us are just as sinful as anyone else
  • God requires us to show mercy and forgiveness to all
  • Everyone is welcome in our churches

The single statement by the Apostle Paul above disproves every single one of these notions.  Notice his…

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“Full Surrogacy Now”: How Our Longings For Love & Community In This World Point To Something Bigger

In her work ‘Full Surrogacy Now’, Sophie Lewis argues forcefully for a “feminism against families”. She considers the nuclear family, or at least the Western concept of it, to be directly opposed to establishing caring communities. Therefore, the nuclear family must be abolished so that we can move forward from our individualism and caring only for our biological family members within a specific framework, to caring for people in our communities who have no blood ties to us. She uses the term “non-nuclear kinships” to describe her vision. (more…)

Christ Fulfills Our Probation

Among some who profess Christianity, there’s the view that we are created upright or innocent as individuals then we choose to commit sin and become sinners. Therefore, everyone is born morally neutral, in right relationship to God and capable of choosing to sin or not to sin. From the starting point of innocence and the right relationship to God, each person then chooses to go astray by committing isolated acts of sin (through the temptation of Satan or their environment). This view impacts how we view salvation because if the cause of our condemnation is acts of sin, we could possibly redeem ourselves by committing acts of obedience. For the Christian, Christ’s death on the cross becomes merely a restoration of the innocence we had at the beginning of our lives and a second chance to live righteously to reconcile ourselves to God by our own obedience. Christ’s work is simply to “make up what we lack” and our salvation is ultimately the result of our obedience and cooperation with God.  Fortunately, that’s not the case and God’s word teaches us differently.

Every person is born into this world under the headship of Adam; he is our representative. We’re not under probation in our lives as individuals; Adam was under probation in the Garden of Eden as our representative. Therefore, when Adam sinned, we sinned. Whatever penalty that was the result of Adam’s disobedience is our penalty. We inherited a corrupt nature from Adam and all of our single acts of sin in our lives flow from a corrupt nature and a darkened mind. We sin because we are sinners by nature; we don’t become sinners because we commit acts of sin. Adam was the only man who ever became a sinner by committing a single act of sin (Romans 5:12-14)

“Let us borrow a simple illustration. God did not deal with mankind as with a field of corn, where each stalk stands upon its own individual root; but He dealt with it as with a tree, all the branches of which have one common root and trunk. If you strike with an axe at the root of a tree, the whole tree falls—not only the trunk but also the branches: all wither and die. So it was when Adam fell. God permitted Satan to lay the axe at the root of the tree, and when Adam fell, all his posterity fell with him. At one fatal stroke, Adam was severed from communion with his maker, and as the result “death passed upon all men.”- A.W. Pink

That’s why our only hope for salvation is for another representative to come and succeed where the first Adam had failed and not in our acts of obedience to God’s law. Our probation was already completed in the Garden. It’s too late for us to turn to the same covenant Adam violated to save ourselves from the wrath of God and be reconciled to Him (Romans 3:19-20). We have already received the sentence of condemnation and are simply awaiting its execution (John 3:18, Hebrews 9:27).

Who can deliver us from this death sentence? Jesus Christ, the second Adam, has (Romans 8:1). God the Son became incarnate, lived in perfect obedience to God’s law, fulfilling the covenant of works that the first Adam broke. Then he went to the cross and died, bearing the penalty of God’s wrath. He lived to provide us with the perfect righteousness we owed to God and he died to bear the penalty we owed to God for our disobedience and violation of His covenant. We are reconciled by repenting of our sins, turning our trust away from ourselves and our imperfect works and trusting in Christ as our Substitute. We are united to Christ in His life, death and resurrection and adopted as God’s sons (Romans 6:5-11, Ephesians 1:5, John 1:12).  He is the mediator of the new covenant, the covenant of grace.

“Finally, let it be pointed out that the sinner’s salvation is made to depend upon the same principle. Beware, my reader, of quarrelling with the justice of this law of representation. This principle wrecked us, and this principle alone can rescue us. The disobedience of the first Adam was the judicial ground of our condemnation; the obedience of the last Adam is the legal ground on which God alone can justify the sinner. The substitution of Christ in the place of His people, the imputation of their sins to Him and of His righteousness to them, is the cardinal fact of the gospel. But the principle of being saved by what another has done is only possible on the ground that we are lost through what another did. The two stand or fall together. If there had been no covenant of works there could have been no death in Adam, there could have been no life in Christ.”- A.W. Pink

Repent and believe this gospel.

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Faith is the empty hand which takes hold of Christ and His benefits.

Musings: Romance for the Introspective Introvert

Based on my current experience with my close friendships, I wonder how introverts handle romantic relationships. I’m a big friendship person. I love seeing depictions of intimate friendships in media and long for those type of friendships myself. But now that I have a close friend who likes to interact with me through video and voice calling, I realize just how much energy it takes to leave my inner world to cultivate friendships. I think it’s easier for me to leave the house and spend time with people individually or in small groups than to have them intrude on me when I’m in my fortress of solitude. I have the desire to have video call dates with my friends, to spend face to face time with them outdoors or at their homes. This desire is often not met due to a lack of effort and personal circumstances. But even when I make those dates, the day comes around I would just love to stay home, scroll through my feed and save countless memes to my archives. If I plan an online meeting, I don’t want to cease what I’m doing or pause the story that is being written in my head to interact with the person. I have more conversations with my friends in my mind than I do in real life.

When it comes to friendship, it’s considered acceptable for me to hide behind my introversion and use it as a reason for not interacting with others or building any kind of relationship that goes beyond the superficial. If I was in a romantic relationship or married, I would have no excuse but to put in the effort to nurture a relationship with my spouse. When my friend calls me it’s fine if I ignore it because I just don’t feel like talking at the moment. Would this be okay if my husband was the person calling? Can I ignore him or my children because I have a lot going on right now? I’m just looking at these things that take so much effort, things that are seen as optional in friendships but are obligations in romantic relationships and I’m wondering, “How can I live up to having to be available for a romantic partner when I struggle with being available for friends?”

Leaving It All Behind for Love

I read Rachel Gilson’s “I Left Same-Sex Romance for Love” and remembered all the things I left for love…the idols I struck down and the sin I have to put to death daily because I love God and my neighbour. It continues to be a daily struggle to die to myself but my Saviour is worthy.
All of us are born broken sexually, regardless of our sexual orientation. The same sinful, corrupt God-hating nature which is responsible for homosexual desires and actions is responsible for my own sinful attractions and sexual sin as a heterosexual woman. The only reason that I’m not lusting after a man at this very moment, viewing porn and/or engaging in intercourse with someone that I am not married to is because of who I am in Christ. God’s words say that those who are in Christ are a new creation, the old has passed away. Salvation involves being given a new nature which loves God and hates sin, a new nature which causes us to desire to turn from our sin and lead lives which are pleasing to God. This is also called being born again and is required for us to even place our faith in Christ. When we are converted, the Holy Spirit now dwells within us, comforts us, teaches us and actually enables us to live righteously and to put to death our sin. One of the reasons for God saving us is that we would become servants of righteousness and be free from the power of sin so that we may no longer walk therein. It is by the power of the Holy Spirit in me and God working in me to glorify Himself that I am able to turn from my sin, including my sexual sin, and turn to righteousness. It is by His word renewing my mind and the new nature He has given me that I am able to love His law, including His commandments and teachings about sexuality, find joy in them instead of burden etc. I now understand that sex is a gift to be expressed in marriage between one man and one woman for life, that marriage is an institution of God and a reflection of Christ and the Church who is His Bride. I still sin sexually but I am reminded that there is now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, because of His sacrifice I am able to confess my sin to God and repent of it, knowing that Christ already bore the penalty for my sin and credits me with His perfect righteousness. This is good news for those struggling with sexual sin. Sin will destroy you but the gospel proclaims that there is freedom in Christ.